I am a Sex Therapist, a Clinician. I do not lay hands on my clients. Daily I hear the cry for "hands on my body" - the hands of a lover, a child, a friend, a health care provider.
There is something about being touched that sparks serious comfort and an urge for more, more or serious discomfort that gets you to want to run. Either way hands on your body brings you an experience that cannot be ignored.
Recently I heard a talk on Ted.com by a physician Abraham Verghese. It reminded me of my last visit to my general practioner's rooms. My regular hands on GP was on sabbatical. His locum listened to me, asked me some questions - about his worrysome patient with a sexual dysfunction ( he only saw Dr. Eve and not me the person) - and then sent me home wiht a script for treatment of bronchitis. He did not once lay his hands on me. After listening to Abraham Verghese I better understood why I felt so affronted and offended.
I train Health Care Providers to invite their patients to "drop their pants" so as to do a comprehensive examination. There is much resistance to this. Reasons such as "it is invasive/inappropriate/culturally unacceptable" are thrown at me. I begin training Health Care providers in "Cinical Management of Sexual Health" in January 2012. E mail if you are interested/have any questions: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it
Tell me if you feel you would like more medical hands on your body. I am deeply curious as to how you feel about this.
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I have an urge to touch someone and to be touch and find it quite arousing and just the idea of it is makes me want to use these big strong hands on someone.I believe there are diiferent forms of touch and I'm more interested in the sensaul part of it.
I'm currently doing research on a form of touch called yoni yoni and lingam and find it very interesting.
The yoni or sacred place is a form of touch where the female genitals are focused on while the lingam is where the male genitals are touched.It is a wonderful feeling to witness how a female is touch in this form and how she climax just by touching on her naked sweaty body.
I think that touch / hands on your body is the new way to go,it has the power to heal that broken heart or spirit.Alot of people never experince that special touch,even kids that grew up without a father or a mother sometimes needs to be touch in a special way to show them that there is hope and love that will give strenght to live a full and happy life.Some people just need a hug or a hand on they shoulder and that will make an enormous difference in they lifes.
This is my views on" medical hands on your body" and lets go out there and make a difference in someones life.
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