It is 9pm , I feel the sun strongly on my back as I blog. I'm in Glasgow, having submerged myself for the last 5 days in the World Association of Sexual Health (WAS) congress. I say submerged as I was engulfed in the world of sexual science , education and rights- and you know how engulfing talking and thinking about sexuality can be:)
What surprises me at conferences is how little is new and how much newness there is. How do women have orgasms is surely not a conversation that professionals need to be having.. but it is as it remains one of the most painful experiences for people, mostly women.
Women remain severely ignorant of their clitoris and this is a universal experience- hey I know men are way more ignorant but we have to get women informed first. Consider that there are over 1,000 delegates at the congress, from 67 different countries and yet we all have the same question: how do we get women to have orgasms?
Ok buy a sex toy- but that's a cop out - I want your fingers to do the walking, I want a partner to follow your fingers and be patient as you allow yourself to surrender to your own orgasm. Why is it so important for women to have orgasms? It's such a waste of loverly genital nerves, not to give them stimulation and give your body the experience of utter complete and total joy.
Do not go inside your vagina, stay focused on your vulva, on your entire clitoral area and give your head something to think about. I just ordered a book on Victorian porn that one of the presenters wrote- I will post pics here to assist your head.
Now go play.
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