Lubricants are flooding the sex toy market. It is confusing and difficult to know what to choose. They are also associated with safer sex as using a bit of lube at the entrance of the vagina and definitely at the entrance of the anus, will make penetration smoother and thus less likeley to have tears - ergo less possibility for transmission of HIV/STI's. But which one to choose?

My rule is never to purchase a lube, gel or mositurizer that has any menthol or parabans in it. Menthol burns and parabans are unhealthy. Lubes have gone green too so we want organic and natural only please. Waterbased is the standard base of most lubes and gels. Aded to them are all kinds of interestign flavours, smells and textures. From chocolate to passion fruit and vanilla to cinnamon , oral sex can be a whole lot more tasty and varied. And I am in no way implying that natrual juices are not tasty- that has to be my personal preference especially if the juices come from a person who is healthy and eats sweet fruit and vegetables:)

Silicone lubes are highly recommended for women who are going through menopause, on meds that dry up their vaginal juices or in surgical menopause due to cancer meds and oncological treatments. Remember not to use silicone lubes with your silicone toys.

Lubes are not just to wet dry vaginas- oh no, they have to be the most erotic addition to any kind of genital play , on both men and women. Try a drop of lube as you do a hand job on your man and watch ecstasy spread on his face. I particular like the Intimate Organics range - yes it is purely organic, and has interesting lubes and gels in their range. Such as the Clitoral  stimulating gel and the anal lube. And the heating lube is exceptional warm pleasure.

I adore GELSEA , a new gel which is sooo silky and packaged in sachets- real smart. Moisturizers are for women who are entering peri menopause , for women who cannot use hormone therapy. It is a local vaginal suppository that mositurizers the vagina, so building up the epithelium, which will ease painful penetration Replens is my choice of moisturizer , use together with a lube or gel, and sex becoems a pleasure again.

I am preparing you for the new week - its vacation time, so perhaps more opportunities to sleep in, have intimate time together or play alone. Stock up on some lube - you will be a happier, more satisfied person. See you through the week.. oh and come in and shop if you have soem free time..

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