As much as I invest a lot into my business , selling sex toys and sexual health products, I still like that women do it by themselves before getting into the toy box. I asked the wonderful women in the PIllowbook Women's Group who had touched their genitals. One would imagine this is a stupid question- like, dah, everyone touches their genitals in daily hygiene. Actually not such a stupid question since many, many women use a cloth, sponge between their hand and genitals. So getting women to touch their own genitals for pleasure can be a major challenge. Many of these women consult with me as they are unable to have a partner touch their genitals , not even to penetrate them. So encouraging women to masturbate is a very important clinical intervention.

What to do when a person in the relationship is just not interested/ desiring to have sex with the partner? The relationship is stunning, they tell me. They live like best friends, co operate in parenting, love their lives together but damn it , the one partner has just no interest in sex with the other. It feels quite tragic to me. Is it valid to end a relationship due to sex?? What do you think?? Talk to me in the forums and share - you will be amazed at how many people find themselves in this position.

Tomorrow night I address SAMS (South African Menopause Society) on Ageing Men. I look forward to this, to open up gynaecologists eyes to the men who partner their patients. I find too much ageism as well as sexism amongst Health Care Providers(HCP) Recently I referred  one of my clients to her gynae to get her hormone replacement revised as she remained symptomatic at age 63 years. I spent a long time with her, her husband and their HCP's. Her husband's sexual health was well taken care of  by his urologist, but the woman's gynae, after long consultation with me on the phone, told her she should give her 70 plus husband a break from sex and she should not be interested in sex either at her age. Eina!

During this month of masturbation I will constantly be recommending sex toys ideal for you. So keep visiting the site for this information. And for free DUREX condoms and lube with every order.

Now go play by yourself, have fun.. sooo much nice lube to choose from - I encourage you to try out the new organics: Good Clean Love- really , really yummy!

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My month

As someone that masturbates everyday I'm surprised that I'm hearing about this Masturbation Month for the first time, anyway I just wish people were very honest when it came to the act of solo touch because everyone does it....don't get me wrong I love sex very much however masturbation is on another level because I can do it for more than an hour bringing myself close orgasm and stopping then continue until i can't take it anymore.
I'm looking forward to topics of masturbation and I hope I can participate and have my views heard by the wonderful people of Dr. Eve.

Thabo Kemang , May 06, 2010

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I can't imagibe my life without it!

What can i say?!!! It's my favorite season! In fact one month is not enough, but from the other side it's very encouraging for those they still have hesitations to enjoy it as deeply as possible! From my side i have it as my breath, as my oxygen, i can't imagine my life without it!

Fani , May 09, 2010

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i will go crazy without masturbation

since i've started masturbating, i've never felt anything as good as doing ma self. I do it more than once a day. I dont enjoy sex with any man, but when i masturbate i go crazy. Is it normal?

may , May 14, 2010

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Masturbation and ageing

I have masturbated since puberty....thru two marriages and believe this did contribute to a healthier life! Admittedly it also allowed me to achieve orgasms easier without the need to perform.
I am now in a much happier relationship and I have found that masturbation reduces my ability to achieve an orgasm, which is most probably a simple result of the ageing process!

likeme , May 20, 2010

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