I have spent the weekend so far trying to catch my breath, sleep and dance and of course spend time with special people. My thoughts are heavy as I try to relax. Last night I got to see the opera "Dead Man Walking" and so am filled with a heart filled with feelings of loss, death, redemption, and of course forgiveness. Read the book, see the movie if you interested in learning more about this opera. Or rather the themes of the original true story.
These are the themes I work with daily as they are the essence of human relationships- so many losses - of desire, love, expectations; the death that results - of one's soul, of part's of one's bodies from one 's heart to one's penis and vagina; redemption of oneself and of course of an=other- is it possible after massive trauma like an affair or a secret withheld? Forgiveness - my favourite principle to explore - this strange belief held by many that one needs to forgive in order to find personal healing. I don't see a lot of personal healing that comes with this "forgiveness" - i more than often see people feeling a form of self betrayal after they have "forgiven" the-other. Hey, your experience may be totally different - I respect that. I share my views. The blog is here for you to share so go ahead and blog your own feelings on forgiveness.
Self forgiveness is the more common goal therapists go for in order to get their clients to heal themselves. It works after hours of self examination and taking responsibility for one's own actions. And in this way learning and acknowledging your truth. As in " I do not enjoy sex where there is no intimacy. It's ok for me to want intimacy during , after and even instead of sex." if you have been having zipless fucks and they work for you, keep many condoms handy and keep enjoying - safely and one person at a time I urge you. Otherwise zip yourself up and get out - so there will be no need for confusion , regret and self recrimination.
Book your place now for our wonderful OPEN EVENING and look out for just fantastic DUREX products which will be loaded into the system and be available to you to purchase in the store from Monday. There is an added surprise - called VERATTIVA. watch thsi space for more information.. enjoy rest of your weekend x
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