Out of this world sex

Too few people know about this kind of sex. I have to be honest about this. There is sex then there is out-of-this-world -sex, sex that literally changes the course of your life. And the reason it changes your life is because you will never settle for good-enough-sex ever again which can make you end and start relationships - to your own surprise.

How to describe out-of-this-world sex? For those of you smiling as you read this you need no explanation from me. For those feeling uncomfortable, saying "oh she talks kak" read on.. And for the record I share  from an accumulation of stories that people have shared with me. The person usually is somewhat traumatized when I meet them. They consult with me as they have experienced this out-of-this-world sex, usually not with  their long term partner. It may be after years of long term partnership , with an infatuation or for a lucky few, it may be right from the beginning of a new relationship. Or a simple hook up.

It takes you by surprise. Your body zings in a new way and as you continue to be sexual, you experience sensations that you did not imagine your body could feel - not in THOSE places, not with this person, not with this touch. And then the after effects of the sexual episode leave you shaking , as the after effects of an earthquake (with no disrespect to victims in Haiti) . You know you cannot go back to what was, how to have this with a long term partner, with a new partner. A gold standard has been set. You know the capability of your body to experience pleasure and you want nothing less. It extends into your sense of well being. You feel overall alive as you have broken through body boundaries , perhaps being sexual in ways which are deemed "kinky" but now feel completely fabulous.

I find that people blessed with this ability to allow themselves to have out-of-the-world sex are people who live extraordinary lives. People who take  calculated smart risks with their intellect, their money, their bodies, pushing themselves into wonderfully new and ongoing experiences. People who want to live.

Safety of both body and partner choice is essential. This kind of sex becomes even more out there when there is intense emotional connection, a sense of trust and safety with each other. It requires you to be adult, to be responsible and respectful. Go push your edges tonight. Get out of your world and into your body. If you are reading this now, go play, go do something extra ordinary for yourself and a beloved- always, always with permission and no coercion. Good night.

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