There is a silent sub culture of women who live in this country and believe that their vaginas are too loose, too big, too wet, too unappealing to their men. What is this?? where does this come from?? Is it the men who are perpetrators of this "loose vagina" culture? Men who tell their women that they cannot "feel" them during intercourse. Or is it women who cannot feel their men as they expect to feel them. Maybe men's penises are shrinking in size..
All I do know is that since I started answering women who slowly began writing me about their "loose vaginas" I have been inundated with loose/wet vagina stories . And then I began recommending a product which will strengthen the pelvic floor muscles as well as the PC muscles surrounding the vagina namely SMARTBALLS and we cannot keep up with the daily demand.
Now don't get me wrong- I am delighted women take their vaginas so seriously. I am thrilled they are ready to invest their money into their vaginas. And I am totally committed to keep advising women around their "loose vaginas" as too many of these women have been using all kinds of products to tighten them up - and therein lies danger. Any clean out,"intimate" product will destroy the epithelium, inner lining of the vagina leaving this vagina vulnerable to infections, such as HIV.
However I want women to question the "looseness" of their vaginas. Yes vaginas loosen with age , after childbirth , and of course will change after abdominal, urogenital surgery, even after hysterectomy. But vaginas do not loosen with many penetrations and no , you cannot "judge" a woman by her vagina tightness, you cannot tell if she has been "sleeping around".
I want women to exercise their vaginas as part of their daily exercise as it will help prevent prolapse of the bladder, anus, vagina. And give them stronger orgasms - oh yes bring it on:) I do not want women to construct a story of "looseness" around their vaginas, as in "loose" morals. I do not want women to believe their men will leave them for a tighter vagina. I want women to wear their vaginas with pride - as Bafana Bafana wore their balls today with pride.
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