I was amused listening to her describe the desperation of some 50 plus women - women who behave in quite a voracious and predatory manner. We debated why this is so uncomfortable for us when in fact men have and will always do this. Why not women? women get horny, they have more confidence as they age - are they too not entitled to prey on men?
My sense is that as long as its consensual, its all good. I laughed as she described the discomfort exhibited by some men who are clawed by women - usually drunk women. We women could share a story or two about drunk clawing, pawing men. Either way, which ever gender is doing the clawing, it sounds pretty invasive to me and thus unacceptable- ban alcohol I say
I have also learned that older people are really using dating sites to meet people - I think that is just wonderful. Someone from overseas describes this as a way of simply meeting new people when you move into a new country, neighbourhood whereas in South Africa there still seems to be stigma and a sense of failure if one joins a dating site. I guess this is one reason I created Classifieds rather than a dating site- a way to be more inviting to people, a gentler way to meet people anonymously. Go ahead and sign in , create your own meeting, hook up or simply create a community of friends.
I hope you order toys in the next 6 weeks so you get the really great Durex lube and condom as free gifts. I couldn't wait to try them out and can vouch for the lube's slippery, glidy feel - it even tastes nice despite being without a particular flavour. And the condoms are easy to put on and they stay on. Please note : that even though you are over 50 and cannot fall pregnant you are totally vulnerable to HIV/AIDS /STI'S like every other sexually active aged person.
Have a week packed with adventures- I intend to
