I am a little besotted with the stuff right now, I 'fess up to this. At the Look Good Feel Good Show Byron, brand manager of Durex, arrived at our stand with masses of the stuff. My reps and I grabbed samples of each lube and set to work.. umm, play

The range is large and caters to play time , alone or with a partner. All are water based lube - but the concepts and packaging are so unique. Take the Melts, for example, my personal favourite (for now!) I first saw this concept years ago at a conference overseas, manufactured by J&J but they were not available in South Africa. Freeze each block as needed , remove when ready to play (alone or with a partner) insert into your vagina or anus and the Melt begins to melt once inserted into your vagina/anus. You are lubed up and ready for play! It is utterly elegant... Or use it straight from the freezer to caress yourself or a partner and enjoy the sensation of lube all over your body as it melts. Get your own box for the weekend.

This week I read in the newspaper that the fastest growing age group signing up for Facebook are over 50's- wow! I love it when myths of ageing are disspelled. I am never surprised , only amazed and delighted, on hearing about sexual relationships in ageing people. Such as a man who recently consulted with me as he, aged 59 , and his wife aged late 40's, have thrown themselves into threesomes - men only. His surprise at his own responses of excitement, not jealousy, vitality it as lit up in their marriage , delights him. He came in to ask: Are we normal?

I leave you with this to think about on your own- I just got off radio and need to get the adrenaline buzz out my system. So Durex lube is what i need now not more writing and thinking