Research indicates that the reason people, specifically women over 50 stop having sex is not due to menopause - rather due to lack of availability of a partner and secondly to her partner's sexual dysfunction or chronic illness. That's when sex toys come in handy - ooh Noeleen got somewhat iffy when I said the word "horny" live on tv.. why must I contain this language , why can all of you, everyone,  not be as comfortable saying these words??

Back to sex toys - I think they hold enormous value for women and couples as they age. If right now, you do not have regular sexual penetration, I urge you to use a vaginal vibrator, just to keep the vagina open- until your knight on a   shiny horse arrives and keeps your vagina open with his body parts. We are waiting for stock of PJUR to arrive, just wonderful silicone lube that you all should be using.

I must to bed - by the way I have to edit my own expression of pleasure on my own blog as I have some people who harass me round any private information I share -so its keeps you guessing and me gagged- what a pity Good night.