Younger men suffer with erection anxiety. Older men over 45 years old's chances of beginning erectile dysfunction increases.

I received this letter from a woman feeling disappointed in dating.

I am at the point where I am considering that instead of a man, I should cater to my needs in another manner.  A masseuse for touch, a dog to love me, a vibrator for sex and a best friend for companionship. Do I need to lower my standards or simply give up?

Being celibate is often times a choice . After years of living alone by age 50 something one might consider whether dating is worth the bother.

Dating is not without its politics. I invite you to consider for yourself what you think about some dating  conundrums that I hear about: