Dating is not without its politics. I invite you to consider for yourself what you think about some dating  conundrums that I hear about:

Tick your YES /NO box after each one. I invite your comments...

* He was  in a relationship with his son's ex girlfriend after she and son broke up - good dating material? YES/NO

* She lacks transparency about previous number of lovers .. good dating material? YES/NO

* He brags about his plentiful past lovers - good dating material? YES/NO

* He has had less sexual experience than you .. good dating material? YES/NO

* Both hide same sex loving/sexing/dating..good dating material? YES/NO

* She has a poor dating track record because she gets rid of men after a couple of months... good dating material? YES/NO

* He prefers older women but is trying you out as he needs to change his dating patterns.. good dating material? YES/NO

* She dated your best friend and now wants you.. good dating material? YES/NO

* Upfront she says she will continue dating others even if you two gel as she likes to keep her options open.. good dating material? YES/NO

* He thinks there is nothing wrong with still being available for his ex girlfriends .. good dating material? YES/NO

* She thinks having sex with her ex will not interfere with her dating you as she is "over him".. good dating material? YES/NO

Let me know how you scored ..