Dr. Eve Forum

Pookie Bear, it's COMPLETELY normal, and it's very healthy to have an active fantasy imgination, and to find attraction outside of your marriage.

It sounds to me that you are feeling guilty, not because you are attracted to various people, but that you are attracted to them AND married. The act of getting married doesn't mirculously slice out that part of your brain that deals with attraction and sexuality.

The fact that you find someone sexy while you're married, doesn't mean you HAVE to do anything with that person. Perv them, lust after them for a bit if you like, have a fantasy about them, think about them while masturbating... none of that is cheating on your husband.

Also, as Lady raven has said, finding another woman is also perfectly normal for some people. Don't fight it because that leads to guilt.

I am Bisexual. I find men and women attractive. People tent to forget this exists and only think in terms of Gay and Straight.

There is nothing wrong with looking at both.

One can surely take a few tips here i like the part where you wear no underwear in the restuarant and softly tell him to just rub over it with his hand......wow!

Why is the forum so quite,people dont want to share and exsplore...come on peeps we can do better,here is my fantasy:i call your boss and told him you not coming in to work,i give you my keys of my hotel room,you'll find a present and inside it is a sexy lace thong and see through gown,i give you the best sex ever,we all sweaty i start sucking your clitoris till your scream,we take a cold shower and i'm inside you with your legs wrap around me,kissing and biting your nipple,carry you to the bedroom and all over again,this is the 10 round and your phone is ringing,your husband is looking for you.