Dr. Eve Forum

I'm dating a girl who's 1 year older than me and she is more experienced when it comes to sex and relationships. It is difficult for me because i am still new in these type of things. The last time we 1st had sex; she was teasing me saying: She will dump me because i dont know how to kiss & make love. She claims that she was joking but i took it serious and i felt so bad. Now.. i dont know whether i made a mistake of dating some1 who has more experience than me, what should i do, i need your help please...

Firstly, she is probably also unsure of her place. This is likely the first time that she has known more or been in control.

Talk to her about how you feel. Ask her to teach you to be a better lover.

Eina! Its hard to face that kind of "joking". I believe people need to be confident, this makes the greatest lovers in the world and confidence comes from being knowledged. Know the anatomy of yourself and women in general. But most importantly explore your own sexuality, masturbation, watching erotica, reading educational and sexy web sites.
Then find a woman with whom you feel comfortable- in general-. you must be able to hold your man in front of any woman no matter how many lovers she has had. any woman who makes you feel "small" is no good for you.