Hi there

I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and have always had a passionate sex life. Recently we have become curious and keen on anal play. She bought an anal toy the other day and inserted it into me while giving me a blowjob. To say it was mindblowing was an understatement. It was the most incredible orgasm I've ever had in my life. The question I have is this common amongst heterosexual men to enjoy anal play? And are anal beads any good?
We are thinking of trying anal sex, any tips on how to make my girl as comfortable as possible?

Hi there

I assume anal play is quite common with heterosexual men. It just isn't spoken about really openly.
My boyfriend is the first I have been with that has been so open about it and I must admit I was a bit put off by the idea of "doing him".
Anyway, one day while giving him a blow job I inserted the anal beads and he nearly collapsed with pleasure. So to answer your question, Yes anal beads are good.
They can also be quite pleasurable for your girlfriend. Just make sure they are well lubed.
Also maybe start playing around with toys before jumping into anal.
Anal sex takes patience. The first few times will be painful and uncomfortable for her but go at her pace. Use lots of lube.
I would suggest buying an anal lubricant as they do not dry up very quickly.
Also try googling the topic. It offers alot of advice.
Hope this helps!!!

Thanks cheeky chops

I think my girl and I have some shopping to do!

Such great advice from Cheeky Chops- thank you. We ahve a great adult DVD in the store right now - an educaitonal How To .. anal sex movie. really suggest it for anyone keen on trying it safely and plesaurably. Also we are selling Systems Jo anal lube which is wonderful. SO gather all these goodies and have safe CONSENSUAL anal play.