I have been married for over 18 years.  I am 41 and my wife 37.  We have two lovely kids.  I still find her very attractive and desireable.  She however has lost her appiate for sex.  I feel that I always have to beg for sex and she feels that I always force her to have sex.  (After enough moaning, shouting screaming and being misluk, she sometimes give in).  I am a good provider. . She does not need to work and is a hous wife.  Although I travel accross South Africa regulary, I always try and help out with the children, the garden and household shores.  Many times I will make food.  I also help with cleaning the house.  We have been to a few marriage counselars but had no success.  We were refered by our current counsollor to Dr. Eve.  I am a little bit sceptical, but I realy need help.  On the other levels of our relation it is fine, we only always argue and fight over the same thing, I am in the mood, she is not - fight.    Am I a sex maniac?