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I am a gay guy who just came out recently. I have going through a friend-phase that will soon be turning into something more. I have been staling this person because I am scared of sex. Is anal sex normal? Wont I damage things getting personal with this person?
Normal 0 false false false EN-ZA X-NONE X-NONE MicrosoftInternetExplorer4 ANSWER: I don't blame you for feeling sacred of sex. After all we have this notion that there is something called "straight/heterosexual" sex and then something else called "gay male" sex. And there are plenty of stories, myths about what is "normal" for each group. For example "normal" sex between men has to be anal penetration. So when a "straight" man wants to have anal sex he is terrified that his woman will think he is gay. And when a gay man does not want anal sex only anal rimming then he is considered to be "abnormal." So if you are going to follow these societally constructed rules then you will never discover what kind of sex you, you as an individual, really enjoys. For the record anal play needs to be done safely, always using condoms and lubricant for penetration. There will not be damage to your insides, only if you excessively insert objects into your anus. Go play safe. I encourage you to buy ASSEGAI lube. It works real well with all kinds of sexual play. Go kiss, touch, smell, or whatever comes from your heart and your genitals.
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