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I moved to SA to live with my husband who is SA that I met back in London UK . I love him and he drives me crazy with desire but he is just too big for comfortable sex. His penis is 13" long when erect and I can only comfortably take about 7". We have tried different positions but nothing seems to work perfectly. We are left with him having to go very carefully, pulling his punch, until I have had my orgasms then I have to finish him manually/orally as its just too damn scary to let him go on and lose control and over thrust when he gets close. What I wondered is there any surgury possible to extend me from normal to extra deep so he can ball me as we both long for?

Dr. Eve answers;

It is so refreshing to find a woman who is willing to have surgery to accommodate a rather huge penis . Women generally are penis phobic not penis accommodatingI know no surgery that will lengthen your vaginal canal - a vagina can stretch up to 10 cm in width but as you have discovered is limited to about 7 inches in length. It sounds as if you two have found ways to play which work for you both so you got to keep being creative with what you can do. I suggest you watch some porn with 13 plus inch penises to get ideas on what they are doing. And of course speak to your gynaecologist who will better advise you on the anatomy of your vagina.

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i am lost for words i say this guy must do an operation to0 reduce his penis size or you will get hurt badly, you do not know what will happen in the future,or you will end up with a big vagina.

ntokozo , November 11, 2009

doing it the Greek way

whenever we make love with my boyfried he will either whisper..'i want ur back' referring to my ass or he will not come(sometimes) and this is troubling me as i feel i don't satisfy him completely..Generally our sex life and relationship is great, i'm scared to try this "Greek way" buti'm willing to learn and try it maybe i may end up enjoying it too.PTA

nono , November 21, 2009

Clueless - need some lessons

I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 yrs and we have not been innovative when it comes to sex and style variety. Now, I have a new boyfriend who is very innovative and I am clueless how to act sexually when I am with him. I really need some lessons. He likes it when I am on top or he enters me from behind but I end up not knowing how move correctly to please him and myself.I am scared I might bore him. Are there DVDs I can watch to put myself back in the game.

Secondly, my new boyfriend has a rather big penis ans sometimes it becomes uncomfortable when he is inside me. I have told him to be gentle as his penis is big but sometimes he just gets out of control and I would not enjoy sex with him. Are there any styles we can try which would not make it so sore when he is inside me.

Regards.

Phills Khanyile , November 26, 2009

Also need lessons

I also feel like I need lessons to keep my man excited, I've only had two other sexual relationships before him and there was nothing exciting, but now with this guy, he's more into the karma sutra's and different positions and he has to lead all the time. I'd like nothing more than to take control sometimes but I have nothing to suggest. I've thought about introducing toys and lubricants but am not sure if that will work. If only I could master the tricks of a good blw jb.

Also Clueless , February 18, 2010

a bit (or big) of advice.

I'm actually have a tilted cervic, which shortens the length of my vagina and limits the length of penis i can comfortably accomidate, atleast in missionary.

Learn to change positions that let you control depth by angle, so you don't have to be so consious of it. For instance.. doggy style with your legs apart and your shoulders down is a good way to get painfully plowed by a well endowed, excited man.. but.. if you put your legs together and lift your torso.. he will be actually curving around your butt more.. still getting great sensation, but with less penetrative length available, letting both of you enjoy the feeling withought the worry. Look at positions that pregnant women use, but avoid any position that would be recomended for having sex with a less endowed man. Those are designed to give shorter men a deeper feeling, not something you need or even want with a longer man.

any position that lets you keep your legs together will help. Your thighs or lips will extend the sheath feeling for him, while keeping his pelvis at a farther distance from yours, giving you the wild sex withought the pounding.

size queen , March 21, 2010