Hi Dr. Eve
I'm 53, recently divorced and have met a wonderful man. He's extremely healthy and fit and we adore each other's bodies and making love often.
I'm conscious of holding back and not reaching the heights of orgasm which I do by masturbating. I'm so turned on by this man that I fantasize about us making love. He experiences magnificent orgasms which I find so exciting.
I've bought your Aphrodite and enjoy the "rush", I'd just love to let go and be a slut in bed!
Dr Eve Answers
You almost seem surprised and even al little shy to acknowledge that despite your age you are loving being sexual. No need for this. After all at your age you have capacity to be a powerfully sexual, orgasmic woman. Time to get out of your head any residual voices of criticism, inhibitions, "norms", stereotypes. Its really time for you to trust yourself sufficiently so that you take responsibility for the choice of man you have selected, the kind of sex you are having; feeling emotionally safe; make sure protective safer sexual health factors are in place then there is no reason why not to let go and surrender to your fantasy to be the "slut" you dream of being.
I think you got to stop comparing your masturbation response to your partner response. It's a fact that masturbation allows people to experience very strong orgasms , many times stronger than one can have with a partner. Rather allow yourself to be fully present in your partner situation and introduce experiences that will blow your mind. Of course I am assuming that you know that you got to talk to your partner, educate him and introduce him to the slut in you. I hope you make friends with her/your slut first so this is a comfortable introduction.
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