... I am also looking into buying a book for my wife and myself that give help and advise into the women body and how to help her become aware of herself and ultimately enjoy or even just having an orgasm.
Dr. Eve answers
So you are a man whose woman has yet to have an orgasm??!
I wonder if your wife knows how anxious you are about her orgasms? She probably feels under tremendous pressure to have one – as you feel inadequate as a man if she is not performing orgasms. Take care of your own anxiety. Know that a man can be helpful in getting a woman to have an orgasm but this is her own journey.
You must be a helpful bystander – mostly take pressure off her, encourage her to relax and find her own way there. I wrote Pillowbook (Oshun 2007) for women to discover their own sexuality, their own eroticism.
Let her buy it for herself – if you give it to her, she will feel it as a pressure to perform- for you! The book is availabe on the website.
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