I'm 27 year old lady and I was in love with the man I thought that he was the love of my life for three years, but this man was cheating on me until he im pregnated another woman in another town. In this case he was not using protection with me and the other woman and I was staying with him. well he ask for forgiveness from me telling me that him the other woman there is just a child and there is no relationship between them. But other thing is if am with him and the mother of his child call, he dont use to be comfortable I use to see that there is something between them, and sometimes if talk about them he use to became angry and ask me that why should I have to talk about them and then he will ask me to give him a break of a week and is when he will come back to me. The woman one day she accused me telling him that I insulted her because of him and the man without any questions he only start yelling at me and go again for his breaks. For three years, I said to myself"what am I doing in this relationship?" whereby I can see it myself that am nothing to him but the other lady is important to him. I decide to drop him. Sometimes he calls me saying that he still love me but I told him that even though I love you, I cannot take you back. Dr Eve am still in love with my ex-boyfriend when I see him at work I feel like holding him again. How do I forget him?
I chose this question for this month's newsletter, for Woman's Month. It typifies the difficult disadvantaged situations within which women so frequently find themselves: cheating man, she puts herself at physical risk as there is no consistent and correct condom usage, nor contraception. She feels unloved, rejected, humiliated jerked around, made to feel she has the problem. And yet she still "loves" him. I am sure many women reading this can see bits of their own story here. I urge you, this month, yes make it happen this month, make your move. Allow yourself a visit to an organization such as FAMSA for counseling , visit Marie Stopes for contraception, go for VCT (Voluntary Counseling and Testing ) with TAC, support from Rape Crisis and visit a debt counselor to get financial advice so you can be independent.
Now you see why all these NGO's are the highlight of my Woman Day's event :)
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i have the same situation
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The fact that he gets angry when u asking about the other woman means that they r partners.U did that right thing by droping him yo deserve only the best.Hold your head up high dont let him get to u and dont show him that hes still in your mind.Time is the best healer wakeup everyday dress to kill and look beutifull all the time i'm definately sure u will feel very confident and proud of yourself then he will be out of your system just like that.Find yourself a new hobby or go to the jim often will as help, as from now tell yourself that whenever you see him u wont think of holding him again cos its all in the mind.Dont go out looking for someone to replace him and dont hide yourself either there are men who really have love out there its just a matter of time b4 u find yoz.Enjoy life gal anyway who said Men makes tha life go round.
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U DESERVE BETTER
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