1)Bob is about 62, divorced twice, 3 children, but is actually bisexual
2)Michael is about 52, virtually a hermit, divorced, no children. He is cousin to Bob and the two of them have had sex on and off for years.
3)Charmaine is about 50, sister to Michael, cousin to Bob, and the three of them have sex together
4)Keith is Charmaine's son, about 23, bipolar, and his mother believes dope is better than his medication. Keith, his uncle Michael and second cousin Bob regularly have sex and Charmaine joins in when she's there.
5)Another family consisting of father and two sons of about 23 have joined in the fray (vrei??) recently. These parties go on for a whole weekend.
6)The most recent addition to this party is a 34 year old gay father with his 13 year old son. 
My question is:
Is this behaviour "normal"?? I know that adults must choose what they want to do and as long as no one is hurt, most, if not all things are ok. I struggle, however, with the young bipolar man whose trust is being violated by the adults in his life all the time. Similarly with the 13 year old.
Is it common practice for fathers to have sex with their sons, mothers with their sons?
I am a 56 year old menopausal gay woman and have never considered myself prudish. Please enlighten me on what is "acceptable" behaviour out there, what are people doing - I seem to have lost touch!!
Thank you Dr Eve

Dr Eve replies:

On first reading of your e mail, I thought it was a trick, rather un-funny e mail prankster writing to me in an attempt to shock me, to be in my face. Where you are a prankster or not the fact remains that this is a very disturbing e mail. If I had your details I would immediately send Child Welfare into this family and invite them to assess professionally what is actually going on in this hornet's nest, this den of inequity. This place of complete Un- safety.

I have a certain anger towards you- and that is why I am taking this as mail from a prankster. I cannot imagine anyone , never mind a 56 year old person, can know about this and your only intervention , is  a "dear Dr. Eve, is this "normal" letter- if this is so , then you are very much part of this abusive seriously damaging situation.

So the smoke screen of your innocence is pretty inappropriate and dangerous. If you are a human being call in professional help - or do you wish to stay an " innocent bystander? " Pretty pathetic response to a pretty dangerous situaiton.

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