Hi Dr. Eve
I have been seeing someone for three years now. We are not dating but we are having sex. At the first year and a half of this fling I became pregnant and went for an abortion. I have regretted that the decision ever since I had done it. Now I am pregnant by the same guy and he told me to tell his friends and mine that he is not he is not the father. He also told me that he wants to marry the lady who had he had baby number six with. I have decided to cut him out of my life but he still keeps on calling me. I wanna get rid of him but I know that I am not weak but is kind of hard saying no to him. Please help me. Thanks
Dr Eve Answers
You do indeed need help to say no. I realize that you are lacking in confidence and self esteem; are afraid to be alone; maybe have no support. I cannot think of any other reason why a woman stays with a man who treats her so badly. No condoms, no responsibilities , impregnates you as a woman, doesn't protect you from another pregnancy and then denies fatherhood so giving you a bad reputation-- this man is indeed a danger to all women. You need to save your life which can only happen by leaving this man. Please get the needed professional counsellign and support you need to do this. Also you need to go for a HIV test and you need counseling in case you are considering another abortion or keeping your baby. Do this for yourself- start taking responsibility for your choices by choosing to let him go and getting yourself supported.
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