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I have never had an orgasm during sex before.Although i do have orgasm during romance and while masturbating but never during sex, have tried it with 3 different guys but its still the same what can i do about it?

DR. EVE ANSWERS:

Please don't use more men to test out your orgasmic ability - with every guy you increase your risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection/HIV. It is a struggle for women to have vaginal orgasms as there are not a lot of nerves inside the vagina. It all happens with the clitoris which is why you are easily orgasmic with masturbation and fore/sex/romance play. So be a smart woman and be creative - while you have a guy inside your vagina, masturbate yourself, use any clitoral sex toy at the same time ( any bullet vibe is good for this - try a BUDDY :)) and then you will have an orgasm. So stop worrying about this - the bigger the deal you make of it, the more pressure you place on yourself and any guy to perform.

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Men don't seem to understand this though - they think that they are either not satifying us or we are "hiding" our orgasm for some unknown power struggle??? Men don't seem to understand that there are ladies out there that "have to" have clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm! It's frustrating and does put a lot of pressure on us to perform...or worse...fake it!

J9 , August 23, 2009

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This also happens to me & my boyfriend thinks he doesn't satisfy me sexually. I remenber I once faked it to please my boyfriend but that was not being honest to myself, not at all. I wish guys would understand this & use other ways such as the tried & tested clitoral stimulation to bring their patners to orgasm.

2li , September 07, 2009