I am not so keen to have sex anymore because my boyfriend is not so hard anymore i dont feel anything, i dont know what to do i afraid to tell him because he might feel small or insecure i love him so much i dont wanna loose him i want to marry him but i am afraid he met not satisfy me in the future. please help i dont know what to do.
Dr. Eve Anwers
I love that you consider your sexual pleasure so important in your life, as A WOMAN, that you even consider leaving a man you love as you're afraid you will not receive sexual pleasure. I am guessing that he is a young man and if he is I wonder why he is not staying hard?? Maybe he feels your dissatisfaction even though you are not saying anything. And he will then become anxious about his performance and need to pleasure you which will result in not so hard erection. Unfortunately the only way around this is talking. Have you tried getting him really aroused ? Have you taken responsibility to enhance your own pleasure by bringing in ideas that might get him hard and you excited? You simply have to talk or act in the moment. Disappearing won't help you as you will never learn the challenge of talking to a partner about what your sexual needs are.
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