I am 18 and doing first year at university and my boyfriend is 19 doing 2nd year.the problem is he call or sms me only when he want to see me and i feel like he is using me for sex.When i confronted him about it he said i dont have to worry i am in every plan of his future.i found an sms from he is ex when i ask him he said his ex she is after him i dont know what to do because i love him so much.when ask his ex she said he told her that she is the one and he is a player i dont know who to believe or i have to walk away from him?

I have learned over the years that women - and men- need to trust their instincts. I think a lot of pain would be avoided if we had the courage to know what we are feeling is our truth. In your case you have feelings of distrust plus evidence- text messages and a conversation with another woman who confirms that your boyfriend is indeed a player.

You love him so much-- yup, know about that loving feeling. But its not the most sensible feeling to guide you into dignity and out of pain that is coming to you like a train.

Your choice!

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