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Hi Dr. Eve. I am a clergyman and have great difficulty when it comes to my sex life. The main reason for this is that my wife is too huge for me. Though I love my wife, the thought of making love to her is not as pleasant as it should be. I have a doctor friends that suggested vaginal rejuvenation to me. My wife had 4 lovely babies and the 1^st and 4^th children were really huge. Please let me know if there is any good substitute for the rejuvenation surgery. We have the finances ready for the surgery, but need a professional opinion before hand.

God bless Clergy

Dr. Eve Answers:

I wonder why its important to stress that you are a clergyman? Well Mr. Clergyman you have as much right as any other man to sexual pleasure. And a tight vagina definitely enhances sexual pleasure. Women's vaginas stretch with childbirth, ageing, life. And of course your penis changes in shape an size as you age- diminishes with the loss of testosterone. So what to do?

First do you have your wife's consent on this vaginal rejuvenation? I know its a difficult conversation to have with a partner but it needs lots of discussion in the most delicate manner. Once she agrees to consider this, lots of information is required. And as you correctly state you need a professional. Search on the South African plastic surgeons web site for a professional close to you. And then go with your wife to hear the options that are open to her.

I wish you a good conversation with your wife - I urge you not to make her feel inadequate or criticised for a perfectly natural change in anatomy.

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i,m 20 yrs old n i m in lover with 19yrs gal.we spend our time sum,kissis ,romansin n touchin all over the body except the privat part cos she doesnt allow me to touch her on her privat part.the west part of it she dont want 2 hv sex with me

poerec , September 25, 2009

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Hi there, the only main reason why ur girl doesnt wanna be touched there is because she aint ready!,,its just simple as that. wait until the time is ready, and please support her, don't just be there and wait till she says yes to sex listen to her reasons why she doesnt really wanna do it yet and work a way, TOGETHER to make her comfortable. STEP BY STEP.

Good luck!

Shaz , October 15, 2009