People can only have “sexual pleasure” if other pleasures are honored. I believe in recognising people’s right to incorporating pleasure legitimately in their lives. Society is quite ambivalent about granting us permission to enjoy feeling sensations of pleasure. It can only be under certain conditions – for example if you have finished a task then you ”deserve” to feel pleasure, if you are married to opposite sex person you “deserve” to enjoy sex – you get it right? I believe people can be trusted to enjoy pleasure in a responsible manner- if we teach people about self trust, people will forget about rebellious fuck-you, self destructive pleasure and allow themselves to surrender to the deliciousness of pleasure.
Sexy Tips to Pleasure
You have the right to:
- wear clothes you feel good in irrespective of your age or stage
- hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself
- choose friends based on the pleasure you feel when you are with them
- watch tv,movies, DVD’s that give you pleasure
- porn gives adults pleasure – make sure your kids know about this pleasure and set boundaries
- eat foods that you know are healthy- the pleasure of feeling healthy has to be one of the purest pleasure feelings one can experience
- exercise for the same pleasurable reasons
- listen to music that creates cascading feelings of pleasure
- read out of you usual genre
- shop out of your usual neighbourhood,
- change your hairdresser for the pleasure of a new you
- decorate each other in accessories and take pleasure in seeing each other’s decorated naked
- rub oils on each other’s bodies just for the sake of curling up and smelling each other bodies
- admit that your sexual relationship is boring and without pleasure.
- Make lists of sexual pleasures that you have heard about, or seen and never tried . Agree to try out one at a time and to drop any that do not give you pleasure.
Mostly find pleasure in giving to others – support a NGO, commit to making every gift a donation to a charity/NGO and be aware of GREEN!
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