“I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you.” You…
A few months ago , acclaimed German artist and visual activist SaySay.Love reached out and invited me to consider creating an event for his upcoming Exhibition, “Intimate Loneliness /Sex with Things”, at the Gus Gallery, Stellenbosch , 30th January. Like a well trained automated bot, I reached for my device and googled. And did an In Real Life “wow” when I…
Millennials and their younger siblings are living paradoxes: they are activists, (#Feesmustfall #MeToo) inspire sociopolitical change, embrace diversity, and are tree hugging ecologically minded. Yet their vulnerabilities are well documented. They’re experiencing staggering increases in the rates of psychiatric disorders, loneliness, suicides, and in the USA, opioid deaths. Their primary form of sexual activity is porn and masturbation and they…
I have ping ponged between being single, attached , single, attached. I have experienced the flood of social invitations from other couples when partnered and the social isolation from these same friends when single. I am way past wondering why partnered people truly believe that single people have no life and thus available for baby sitting , or over time…
Hello to you in 2019! I am well lit with the magic I am planning for myself in 2019. I invite you to join me as I explore new ideas on healthy, tech intimacy driven sexuality and relationships that are the future of sex. However before we move into the future we must linger in the present. Im inviting you…