When I watch porn I have to consciously silence the critic in me and try be present with the purpose of porn : entertainment to arouse the many millions who watch it daily. I acknowledge and even enjoy the healthy, recreational benefits of porn that promotes a positive permissive environment and opportunities for couples to actually communicate their pleasures…
There are two major , and overlapping, themes that emerge in my therapy room : sexuality and money. He will present with an erection difficulty or early ejaculation and she will express no desire for sexuality. Disagreements over money are one of the top causes of couple fights and divorce. We feel shame, and this shame prevents us getting financially…
How are you feeling today ? Sad, bad, mad, glad, neutral, numb…. ? How many hours/days/months/years has it been that you have been hanging around in Heartbreak Hotel? Tell me the reason for your BreakUp ? And who did the breaking?? Was it mutually agreed upon , or only one sided? Shudder as I recall my Break Ups, from divorce…