It is 11.30pm. He stumbles downstairs to see where his wife is. She is on the couch , immersed in her mobile device. Smiling , giggling. As she sees him , she quickly , puts her mobile face down . GOTCHA! What follows is not pretty. He feels his gut constrict and he is not […]
Monthly Archives: January 2020
Abuse, Advice, Harassment, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Men's Health, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized, Womens Health
Angry Words are a one way ticket to Gender Based Violence
21
Jan
Jan
Has there ever been a time in your life when you have got so angry that you ended up hurting someone you care about ? With words, not actions, just words. Words that left you looking around and wondering out of whose mouth did those words just come? Once you have returned to emotional […]
Cyber Infidelity, Infidelity, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Men's Health, Online Dating, Polyamory, Pornography, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized, Womens Health
POSTING SEXUAL IMAGES (PSI) AND SEXTING : MENTALLY HEALTHY ? ?
14
Jan
Jan
Have you ever wondered if posting sexual images or sexting makes you deviant, perverted , or a little crazy? Or do you brazenly post without giving it a second thought . Perhaps you do stop to wonder if this is legal (ask Emma Sadlier please ) pornographic , within the bounds of monogamy. Or maybe […]
Intimacy, Lifestyle, PAINFUL SEX, Polyamory, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Toys, Sexual Health, Sexual Transmitted Diseases, Uncategorized
Are you a sexually healthy person ?
07
Jan
Jan
I cringe as I write the words “sexually healthy “. There is so much pressure to be sexually “normal” , that to add on the emotional and physical burden of being sexually “healthy ” might feel like adding coal to the fire. It sounds prescriptive and I don’t like anything prescriptive when it comes […]