Hello there, CLICK HERE TO WATCH ME TALK ABOUT “INTIMACY CARE” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XU4ptEl6tc8 As you begin your new week, I invite you to set your intentions for yourself in your intimate relationships. Intimate relationships include any form of relationship that is significant to you. These include parent/child; siblings; friends; lovers; significant partner/s; colleagues. Let’s begin: I invite you to say or…
Hello, Click here to see me talking about GRIEF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coCsXwVsBeQ I want to talk to you about Grief. As we experience modified Level 3 and reintegrate and emerge into a different self and a familiar yet changed world, feelings of grief must once again be examined. The grief you feel now may be different to the grief you experienced at the…
CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “BUILDING YOUR LOVE MAPS” https://youtu.be/IULOGqqd4So I have noticed that you enjoy the quizzes I send to you. They are a powerful instrument that can be used to initiate difficult conversations with a partner. The purpose of relationship and sexuality quizzes is to know each other better, in a deeper more intimate manner. …
CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALKING ABOUT “GOOD ENOUGH PARENTS” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JkGwG5cZxZM I used to consider myself a good parent to my 3 now-adult children. I believed that “good parenting” meant that you pretty much sacrificed yourself for your kids, that you were available at every peep, and in return, you could expect perfectionism. Luckily in the course of my studies,…
Click here to see me talk about how to do a “relationship check-in” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zARdcQyLx0A It’s time! Time to take a breath and invite your partner to do a “Relationship Check-In”. As a single person, it is time for you to check in re your current relationship values. 3 unique relationship months have passed, unique in that you have spent this…
Like me , I am sure you have an opinion about the reinstatement of alcohol in Level 3. I celebrate the return of some of our freedom, mostly the freedom to trade and boost the economy. Like most freedoms, this comes with a cost. And the cost of alcohol is high on the health and safety of people. Covid-19…
CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALKING ABOUT “SELF CARE” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_NEY9Z25u5I Today I want to talk to you about “Self Care”. It may not sound as sexy as “vaginal orgasms” and yet self-care is the finest way to get you to orgasm, and to attain the many other pleasures of intimacy, deeply emotional and sexual intimacy, for which you long. This…
Hello Parents, By now you have got HomeSchooling#101 under your belt. I have heard about the sense of inadequacy you feel around your own math knowledge , geography and Xhosa. Ive learned that as a parent you have stretched yourself into new technologies to enable your child to learn online. And you’re exhausted . Sorry for you, but I…
CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “FEMALE ORGASMS” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luUbPBUcP4U Today I feel compelled to talk about “Female Orgasms”. And somehow, I know that you will feel drawn to reading about this ill-informed, sensationalized topic that continues to cause much emotional pain and distress to women and their partners. In the last few days I have had a number of couples,…
Hello there, Click here to see me talk about Intimacy Trauma https://youtu.be/OeexwgmAmuA This last weekend I attended the annual Trauma Research Foundation online conference. The Foundation is run by the world’s leading trauma specialist/psychiatrist, Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a man whom I have met and whose trainings I have been doing for many years. The speakers were all global…