SUICIDE AND COVID-19

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “SUICIDE AND COVID-19” https://youtu.be/WtH28d5-pI0 Hello, We are living through not one but 3 epidemics, namely, covid-19, gender based violence and loneliness.  The new kid on the block – covid-19 – has exacerbated the other 2 public health problems that existed pre-covid-19.  This has immediate and long-term consequences on your mental health, including an…

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Let’s not go back to normal

CLICK HERE TO WATCH ME SPEAK ABOUT “LET’S NOT GO BACK TO NORMAL” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fmKIs1sINY Hello there… I invite you to watch the latest advert from Durex, called: ”Let’s not go back to normal”.  CLICK HERE https://youtu.be/v26ag0yyLR4 It’s brilliant! Without judgment, it simply and powerfully invites you to accept that your sexual “normal” may not have been as healthy as it should…

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SEXUAL DYSFUNCTIONS AND CHILDHOOD ABUSE

CLICK HERE TO WATCH ME SPEAK ABOUT “SEXUAL DYSFUNCTIONS AND CHILDHOOD ABUSE” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1k6_r1E8KI HELLO… I hope that you are currently living in a home that feels safe and secure.  I hope that you are living without violence and threat.  And I hope this finds you in a sexually safe and consensual relationship. Perhaps you grew up in a home that…

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Entanglement

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “ENTANGLEMENTS” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_4pD73y5fI A few weeks ago, a new pop scandal erupted.  Jada Pinkett Smith, the wife of Will Smith, confessed to him via one of her public platforms, that she had become entangled with August Alsina, while separated from him.  Twitter went crazy.  Everyone had an opinion and the moral police had a…

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The Trauma of Abortion

THE TRAUMA OF ABORTION Is abortion a trauma? Research says NO. What is traumatic about abortion may well surprise you. ABORTION IN SOUTH AFRICA The Choice on Termination of Pregnancy Act, 1996 (Act No. 92 of 1996) is the law governing abortion in South Africa. It allows abortion on demand up to the twelfth week of pregnancy, under broadly specified circumstances from the…

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FORGIVENESS

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “FORGIVENESS” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PeubuwZ_1Hc Hello… When it comes to “forgiveness” I am always faced with personal discomfort.  Forgiveness is closely correlated with increased happiness and improved mental health.  Hey, give me some more of that!  It is also associated with good moral behavior and is heavily emphasized in many religions.  The notion of “forgiveness” is…

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The sexual satisfaction quiz

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALKING ABOUT “THE SEXUAL SATISFACTION QUIZ” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1-i5s5Z0Gc It’s been 4 months since we have been locked down.  I thought now would be an interesting time to give you an opportunity to check in on how, if at all, your SEXUAL SATISFACTION, has changed since lockdown began. Sexuality is significantly impacted by many unique to you, external…

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The Porn Conversation

Hello there, Click here to see me talk about “THE PORN CONVERSATION” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPIxQTZmGzw At this time of Covid-19, your children have a lot more than usual permission to be online.  From schoolwork, to gaming, to zoom chats with relatives, and of course social media, your children are pretty much stuck for more than 8 hours a day online.  Pre Covid-19…

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