Your Sexual Pleasure

Hello… I HAVE A PLEASURE GIFT FOR YOU!  READ ON… Pleasure is associated with the five senses – touch, smell, taste, vision, sound.  Often times it is difficult and challenging to know what gives one pleasure.  And when you do notice something that stirs pleasure inside of you, you may resist it, naming it as too expensive, self-indulgent, unnecessary, or…

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SEXUAL PLEASURE

Hello… Welcome to a week of SEXUAL PLEASURE. Friday 4th September is WORLD SEXUAL HEALTH DAY.  In 2010, the World Association for Sexual Health (WAS) called all their organizations to celebrate, on each September 4th, the World Sexual Health Day (WSHD) in an effort to promote greater social awareness on sexual health across the globe. This year the theme we at WAS chose,…

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Sexual Abuse Survivors

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “PARTNERS OF SEXUAL ABUSE SURVIVORS” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VsoFn-PqJbI Hello… Perhaps you wonder why your partner stiffens when you touch her/him/they? Or you may be confused about the sexual change that happened after about an initial year of passionate sex.  And you really have lost patience with all the excuses your partner makes to avoid being…

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Intimacy Starved

Hello… Are you feeling intimacy starved?  Sex-starved?  Skin starved?  Perhaps you are longing to feel skin-on-skin, flesh-on-flesh contact with a person.  You may even be belonging for that gaze of lust, a gaze that says you are special and desirable. You are not alone.  Whether single or in a relationship, sex starvation is hurting a lot of hungry people. Covid-19…

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Level 2- Happiness

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT LEVEL 2 – HAPPINESS https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8xfS1eXIF4 After President Cyril Ramaphosa announced South Africa’s move down to Level 2, I sat with my feelings in my heart and sensations in my body.  What came up first was Gratitude…  gratitude that the economy will be somewhat revived, and people will have jobs, purpose and pride.  Second,…

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SUICIDE AND COVID-19

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME TALK ABOUT “SUICIDE AND COVID-19” https://youtu.be/WtH28d5-pI0 Hello, We are living through not one but 3 epidemics, namely, covid-19, gender based violence and loneliness.  The new kid on the block – covid-19 – has exacerbated the other 2 public health problems that existed pre-covid-19.  This has immediate and long-term consequences on your mental health, including an…

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