Spending 3 weeks in lockdown with a known partner either fills the heart with forgotten butterflies or dread. It could also mean moving in with a new person as partners who do not live together cannot see each other in person . You choose this over 3 weeks of separation . Perhaps your […]
Category Archives: Intimacy
Advice, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Pornography, Relationships, Sexual Health, Sexual Transmitted Diseases, Uncategorized
Pornography consumption : how much does it influence your sexual expectations and behaviour?
01
Mar
Mar
At the outset I state that this is not a blog about the harm/benefits of pornography consumption . Rather this is a matter of fact invitation for you to consider whether or not your porn consumption influences your real life sexual activity, either alone or with a partner/s. And if so, in what way does […]
Advice, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Polyamory, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized
Non Binary #101
18
Feb
Feb
“Do you, personally, identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender?” This is a research question asked of young people in multiple cultures and countries, And commonly the outcome remains the same, as reported in the book “Life isn’t binary: on being both, beyond and in-bewteen ” , by Meg-John Barker and Alex Iantaffi Nearly half […]
Advice, Foreplay, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Men's Health, Relationships, Sex Toys, Sexual Health, Uncategorized, Vibrator, Womens Health
Why and How Females Masturbate
04
Feb
Feb
Google “how to masturbate” and you will be confronted with many guides on “Dating your down under” , or Touch Yourself. All aimed at women. Interspersed are a few guides for men /people with a penis. It implies a silent understanding that men know how to masturbate and do it as part of their male […]
Advice, Cheating, Cyber Infidelity, Infidelity, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Online Dating, Polyamory, Pornography, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized
Cyber Infidelity : a dishonest form of relationship
29
Jan
Jan
It is 11.30pm. He stumbles downstairs to see where his wife is. She is on the couch , immersed in her mobile device. Smiling , giggling. As she sees him , she quickly , puts her mobile face down . GOTCHA! What follows is not pretty. He feels his gut constrict and he is not […]
Abuse, Advice, Harassment, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Men's Health, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized, Womens Health
Angry Words are a one way ticket to Gender Based Violence
21
Jan
Jan
Has there ever been a time in your life when you have got so angry that you ended up hurting someone you care about ? With words, not actions, just words. Words that left you looking around and wondering out of whose mouth did those words just come? Once you have returned to emotional […]
Cyber Infidelity, Infidelity, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Men's Health, Online Dating, Polyamory, Pornography, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized, Womens Health
POSTING SEXUAL IMAGES (PSI) AND SEXTING : MENTALLY HEALTHY ? ?
14
Jan
Jan
Have you ever wondered if posting sexual images or sexting makes you deviant, perverted , or a little crazy? Or do you brazenly post without giving it a second thought . Perhaps you do stop to wonder if this is legal (ask Emma Sadlier please ) pornographic , within the bounds of monogamy. Or maybe […]
Intimacy, Lifestyle, PAINFUL SEX, Polyamory, Pornography, Relationships, Sex Toys, Sexual Health, Sexual Transmitted Diseases, Uncategorized
Are you a sexually healthy person ?
07
Jan
Jan
I cringe as I write the words “sexually healthy “. There is so much pressure to be sexually “normal” , that to add on the emotional and physical burden of being sexually “healthy ” might feel like adding coal to the fire. It sounds prescriptive and I don’t like anything prescriptive when it comes […]
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The best of Dr Eve and Eusebius McKaiser , Radio 702: 2019
11
Dec
Dec
Its 11am Friday morning. The jingle plays “Talking Sex” . I am alert and excited to begin the conversation . During the week my host, Eusebius McKaiser and I have mindfully discussed the topic and thrown around ideas. We aim to educate, provoke and provide a safe and professional space for listeners. However we […]
Advice, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Polyamory, Relationships, Uncategorized, Womens Health
An examination of Friendship, Love and Loneliness
02
Dec
Dec
I dedicate this to anyone who has recently fallen in love, has been in love, or wants to be in love. After all in Western society love is the purest most sublime experience. We situate love before values such as justice, solidarity ,human rights, kindness and respect, says Mari Luz Esteban, a lecturer in Social […]