Recently a couple consulted me as she had found messages on her partner’s mobile that she thought were evidence of an affair. He had numerous chats with his work colleague , even photos of her, and the nature of the chats were personal ,even flirtatious. When she confronted him , he became defensive and denied he was cheating as no physical contact had occurred. In fact, he got pretty angry with her that she had gone onto his mobile without his permission. She remained resolute that this was cheating. I welcome your thoughts on this situation.