Painful Sex – OHNUT is here to assist you

The kids are finally asleep, you’re feeling close and connected with him and want to let him know that you’re in the mood for some love making. In a flash the memory of pain gets you to catch your breathe. And you don’t. You don’t let him know that you desire sex with him. You refrain from turning down the…

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The Penis and Penetration go together like a hand in a glove

Recently I worked with a group of men for a weekend.  The purpose fo the group was “How to thrive in a healthy intimate relationship.”  During an accumulation of many of  our discussions , it came to me that these men totally associate sexuality with penetration. I should know this by now having worked with men for 26 years. Something…

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POSTING SEXUAL IMAGES (PSI) AND SEXTING : MENTALLY HEALTHY ? ?

Have you ever wondered if posting sexual images or sexting makes you deviant, perverted , or  a little crazy? Or do you brazenly post without giving it a second thought . Perhaps you do stop to wonder if this is legal (ask Emma Sadlier please )  pornographic , within the bounds of monogamy. Or maybe  you accept this as normative…

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