Google “how to masturbate” and you will be confronted with many guides on “Dating your down under” , or Touch Yourself. All aimed at women. Interspersed are a few guides for men /people with a penis. It implies a silent understanding that men know how to masturbate and do it as part of their male privilege. Im not undermining the…
Place yourself into this scenario. The penetration has happened. He has had an orgasm, She may be one of the 15% of women who reliably orgasm through only vaginal penetration . Or more likely she is one of the 65% of women who orgasm , primarily through clitoral stimulation . What happens now? What do you do now? What does…
The penis matters. Ask any man. In a heartbeat he will be able to describe to you, in minute detail, every mark, fold of skin, bend and texture on his penis. After all he spends a lot of time fondling it as he relaxes, masturbates , places it in his underwear , pees and penetrates a person with it.…
It was late at night when a WhatsApp message came through on my professional line. The young woman was spinning out as 2 nights previously, she and her boyfriend had unprotected sex and he used the pull out method. She wanted to know how effective emergency contraception would be, 72 hours having being past. In her words, and language she used…
As South Africans, we are all AIDS fatigued . It’s been around for so long that without blushing in shame, we can ‘fess up that we don’t enjoy condoms, and that we don’t really use them reliably and consistently. And now that bio medical technology is here, why bother? A brief history of HIV/AIDS in South Africa. In 1982 the…