Your Sexual Pleasure

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I HAVE A PLEASURE GIFT FOR YOU!  READ ON…

Pleasure is associated with the five senses – touch, smell, taste, vision, sound.  Often times it is difficult and challenging to know what gives one pleasure.  And when you do notice something that stirs pleasure inside of you, you may resist it, naming it as too expensive, self-indulgent, unnecessary, or even exposing of a part of yourself that brings you some shame.  The ridiculous phrase “guilty pleasure” comes to mind!

My theory is that If you can allow yourself an emotionally self-regulated enjoyment of your unique pleasures, you are more likely to give yourself permission to enjoy Pleasure within your own Sexuality.

I invite you to get comfortable and do this practice to gain understanding and acceptance of your own sexual pleasure.

 

“Imagine yourself in a place where you feel completely relaxed and safe. There is a photograph album of your life.  Inside the album on each page, there is a different picture of you at different stages of your life.

 

The first page is a photo of you as a baby.  On the next, you as a toddler, then as you turn the pages there is you starting primary school, secondary school, beginning puberty, becoming a young adult, and finally, as you are now.

 

Look at these photos and think about yourself at each of these ages.

 

Think about different senses – taste – touch – hearing – smell – looking and how these give you pleasure as a baby?  As an infant?  As an older child?  At puberty?  As a young adult? As you are now?

 

Now, think now about sex…

 

When did you first become aware of yourself as a sexual person?

 

When did you first feel sexual pleasure?

 

What did it feel like?

 

And now, how does it feel to be a sexual person?

 

What makes you feel sexy?

 

What makes you feel good about yourself as a sexual person?”

 

When you have finished, take time to draw or write on your paper whatever has come into your mind.  This may be in words, pictures or diagrams. 

This exercise could trigger uncomfortable memories.  Stop the exercise and take care of yourself.

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**YOUR PLEASURE GIFT**

 

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THE BEST MOTIVATION WINS A MYSTERY GIFT FROM ME TO YOU J

 

Send your motivations to: dreve@dreve.co.za

before FRIDAY 4TH SEPTEMBER 2020.

 

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