Considered to be a highly influential and respected professional woman in her field of expertise in Africa and internationally.

The certificates on my wall testify that I started out as a Clinical Social Worker, specialising in Family Therapy,  (BA. Social Work (Hons), M. (Clinical Social Work) (cum laude), and attained my Doctorate in Human Sexuality in the USA,  DHS (Doctorate in Human Sexuality), Institute of Advanced Studies in Human Sexuality, San Francisco. I became certified as a Couple & Sex Therapist through  AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists) and achieved Fellowship in Sexual Medicine.

Today I call myself a Clinical Sexologist, Couple & Sex Therapist and Sexual Medicine Consultant, in Private Practice, specialising in Cyber Infidelity and Intimacy Trauma. Over the years my clinical interest shifted. This was triggered by my research into #CyberInfidelity.

In June 2015  my ground breaking book “Cyber Infidelity: The New Seduction “ (Human &Rousseau 2015) was published to global acclaim. This work now defines my clinical and academic interest in Contemporary Intimacies and Modern Day Love.

I moved  from a purely medicalised focus on sexuality, to my current  intense interest in understanding people’s online sexual and relational behaviour, and relationship to technology. The emergent complexities of relationships and sexualities necessitated my need to train in Complex Trauma management. I will soon be certified as a Complex Trauma Practitioner

Twenty five years ago, as the founder of Dr. Eve, the South African household brand representing professionalism, pleasure, respect, and responsibility, I began to pioneer sexual health and rights education, information and counseling in South Africa and through Africa.

Utilizing multiple forums, from live mobile chat platforms with youth, to global public appearances, my commitment  is on providing evidence-based education across all age groups and cross-culturally.

Having written 4 best seller books on woman’s sexuality, sexuality education for youth, aging and Cyber Infidelity, I am  sought after for appearances both locally and internationally. I am a global opinion leader on Cyber Infidelity. In January 2019 I was invited  by producers of a Health Show, soon to appear on Netflix. to be a consultant on the Infidelity /Cyber Infidelity segment.

My writing skills have become honed through many years of being a columnist in all major magazines, online web sites and  a blogger for both South African and international media. From 2017-2018 I had my own column in a New York based online magazine and in February 2019, I was cited in the New York Magazine.

My devotion to ensuring sexual rights and health for all are met, moved me into a new pioneering area , namely Medico Legal work. I am a Sexual Health Expert , in medical negligence and personal injury matters. This means I assess for loss of sexual functioning  as a result of personal injury and make recommendations for compensation thereof. I look forward to extending my skills and expertise globally.

In 1994 I brought a shipment of sex toys into South Africa. Coming out of the Apartheid era and sexual censorship, I was aware of the lack of sexuality education which includes the right to access sexual health products for both clinical and private use. My online store and my in -house store, are my joy.



I am  considered to be a highly influential woman in Africa, a continent in which women need female role models to talk about sexuality and sexual health. I represent  South Africa /Africa on different international forums.


Mypassion lies in my private clinical practice. From 8am-8pm I am invested and focused on working with couples and individuals who are stuck and struggling with their intimate lives. Utilizing mindfulness, ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Trauma Interventions, Sex Therapy and Sexual Medicine assessments, with a wide lens into alternative relationship structures, Ioffer a holistic therapeutic approach.


Proudly I am  a Temporary Advisor to the WHO (World Health Organization). As an internationally renowned academic, I teach Sexual Medicine at the University of Cape Town Medical School and I am  a regular reviewer of academic journals and conference abstracts.

As an International Sexual Rights Activist, I was the Regional Secretary for Africa for the World Association of Sexual Health (WAS). In addition, I have served as board and committee member on a number of highly respected international scientific sexual medicine, sexual health, and rights organizations.


Education forms the core of all my work. Whether it is educating clients in my therapy room, training health care providers, or appearing before students and the public, education is key to behaviour change.  

As a comprehensive sexuality educator of many years, in 2018 I was invited to  oversee and be consultant to the National Department of Education, in the design of the Sexuality’Relationship thread of the Life Skills text books for 2020 learners of South Africa.


Having been a popular key opinionthought leader on sexual health in the pharmaceutical industry,I continue to deliver papers at international scientific sexual health and rights meetings which focus on Contemporary Intimacies and Modern Love, my unique contribution being Cyber Infidelity.


Living  in a country with extraordinary levels of sexual violence, harassment and abuse specifically towards women, urged me to become a  Human Rights Activist, with a focus on being a women’s defender. I was a founding board member of Gender Dynamix, a NGO devoted to the care of Transgender people, and very involved with SWEAT, an NGO, defending the rights of sex workers.


Four years ago I was invited to join the Cape Town Executive Committee of SAMLA (South African Medico Legal Association ), and in 2017 I was nominated to the executive board of SAMLA. As the only Sexual Health Expert in the country, with few others globally, I am deeply committed to ensuring the sexual rights of all people who have suffered through medical negligence and personal injury, are met.


In 1994 I imported sex toys into South Africa. Despite professional stigma and community rejection, I opened an In Real Life and online store (, believing people have the right to access sexual health products to better promote their sexual health and pleasure. Today my store thrives under my loving attention. People are educated into the clinical and personal benefits of using sexual health products.