connection, our deepest desire and greatest fear

Intimate Relationships are complex, messy, even traumatic. Falling in and out of love, both Online and In Real Life, dating, courting and staying together long term, is a challenge. Instinctively, you pull toward and simultaneously push away, from a partner/s. You want to attach, but feel detached. You feel lonely, you feel crowded. You feel confused, unhappy, indifferent, disappointed.

Thank you for reaching out.

Let’s work through the layers of your relationship/s.
I am here to help you understand modern day relationships, and work with you whilst you sit in the pain of missing what you most long for, namely intimate connection.

Perhaps you are single, married, committed, or in a hook up, Friends with Benefits situation. You may be consensually non-monogamous thinking or actively engaging in an open relationship, entering into swinging, threesomes, polyamory. Maybe you are going through the ending of a significant relationship, or perhaps you have been ghosted and in pain.

Together let’s navigate your way through the conundrums that arise through modern loving and connecting.

Working through a trauma-informed lens, utilising Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Internal Family Systems, Mindfulness, traditional Sex Therapy techniques, Self Compassion interventions, I offer individuals/couples a safe and secure therapeutic space in which they can explore their relationships/connections and creatively,  courageously design the kind of relationship for which they long.


couple and sex therapist
intimacy trauma therapist
family therapist
individual therapist
cyber infidelity
medico legal sexual health
psychedelic medicine
intimate partner violence (IPV)
public speaker

dr. eve store

In 1994, I imported sex toys into South Africa. Despite professional stigma and community rejection, I opened an In Real Life and online store (, believing people have the right to access sexual health products to better promote their sexual health and pleasure.

Today, my store thrives under my loving attention. People are educated into the clinical and personal benefits of using sexual health products.

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