cyber infidelity

it’s not that i’m having sex or anything

Infidelity hurts so bad. Whether you are the hurt person, or the person who did the hurting, when disclosure happens, a roller coaster appears and you both jump on and go for the ride of your life.

Working through a trauma-informed lens, utilising Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Internal Family Systems, Mindfulness, traditional Sex Therapy techniques, Self Compassion interventions, I offer individuals/couples a safe and secure therapeutic space in which they can  heal and explore Infidelity as a growth opportunity for transformation.

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Together, let’s work through the trauma and move into possible growth that Infidelity and Cyber Infidelity brings.

Perhaps you were not having In Real Life sexual contact, merely chatting or even sexting with a stranger, online, and wonder why your partner accuses you of infidelity, emotional infidelity. It’s called Cyber Infidelity.

It occurs insidiously and silently, even unintentionally. And it hurts more than the non-consensual non-monogamous physical activities you do with another person.


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In 1994, I imported sex toys into South Africa. Despite professional stigma and community rejection, I opened an In Real Life and online store (, believing people have the right to access sexual health products to better promote their sexual health and pleasure.

Today, my store thrives under my loving attention. People are educated into the clinical and personal benefits of using sexual health products.

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