Like me , I am sure you have an opinion about the reinstatement of alcohol in Level 3. I celebrate the return of some of our freedom, mostly the freedom to trade and boost the economy. Like most freedoms, this comes with a cost. And the cost of alcohol is high on the health […]
Category Archives: Abuse
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Angry Words are a one way ticket to Gender Based Violence
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Jan
Jan
Has there ever been a time in your life when you have got so angry that you ended up hurting someone you care about ? With words, not actions, just words. Words that left you looking around and wondering out of whose mouth did those words just come? Once you have returned to emotional […]
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The best of Dr Eve and Eusebius McKaiser , Radio 702: 2019
11
Dec
Dec
Its 11am Friday morning. The jingle plays “Talking Sex” . I am alert and excited to begin the conversation . During the week my host, Eusebius McKaiser and I have mindfully discussed the topic and thrown around ideas. We aim to educate, provoke and provide a safe and professional space for listeners. However we […]
Abuse, Advice, Harassment, Lifestyle, Love, Men's Health, Relationships, Sexual Health, Sexual Transmitted Diseases, Uncategorized, Womens Health
My first sexual intercourse experience
27
Nov
Nov
Think back to your first sexual intercourse experience. Actually don’t think.. notice the sensations that come up in your body right now: warm glow all over, sudden pelvic contraction, heart pounding , throat constricting, head throbbing plus plus . Merely checking into your body will be enough to tell you whether or not that first […]
Abuse, Advice, Cheating, Harassment, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized, Womens Health
The interpersonal lives of sex workers: dating , motherhood and romance.
02
Oct
Oct
This blog is not about what you do know about sex workers. Rather it is what you may not know about sex workers. It is about their interpersonal lives. Here is what we do know about South African sex workers (courtesy of Sonke Gender Justice/Zia Wasserman ) * In South Africa sex work is illegal. * […]
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To shave or not to shave: Pubic Hair Removal under the microscope
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Sep
Sep
In Eve Ensler’s play “The Vagina Monologues “ , a woman tells a story of her pubic hair. She never liked trimming or shaving her hair. She liked it natural. Her husband liked her to shave, to be completely clean shaven, , to remove all her pubic hair. She disliked it as she said […]
Abuse, Advice, Harassment, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Uncategorized, Womens Health
Domestic Violence can Kill you : This information may save you.
14
Aug
Aug
The worst part of my domestic violence was that there was no end date. I never knew when it would happen and I never knew if it would ever end. And even when I left , I remained on the look out. Truth be told, I , like most victims of domestic violence was […]
Abuse, Advice, Harassment, Intimacy, Lifestyle, Love, Relationships, Sexual Health, Uncategorized
Forgiveness of my perpetrator : yes or no ?!
09
Jul
Jul
I observe closely the hand wringing and agitated physical movements as I hear the contradictorily strong voiced declarations. Declarations of hard work to get to this place of acceptance.and peace. Hard work toward Forgiveness. This is followed by intense gazing at me, short silences, as the person waits for my response. Approval […]
07
Mar
Mar
When the call for help first came in , I had to take a moment and breathe. A few days earlier a young boy of 16 years old had told his father, whilst driving home from soccer practice, that his mother had been sexually abusing him since he was 12 years old. He wanted me […]
21
Nov
Nov
Don’t ask . Simply do not ask this question. It implies that women are responsible for their own abuse and harassment . It hints at disbelief and doubt of the woman. It invites her onto a platform on which she has to explain and justify that she was indeed sexually abused. Its a cop out, […]
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